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Marty (KC) Kanter-Cronin's avatar

Raz, some thoughts. Great topic. For context, I am a white middle aged middle class male, who is also an ultrarunner. My best running friend and training partner is a younger, Hispanic female. So, I get it. I volunteer every year at a race with a woman in leadership, one of my favorite races has a woman race director. I am all on board.

I am going to remark specifically on the gender question here.

Is this just a microcosm of greater society? One could argue your title might as well be "the power dynamics of politics", where even when women make it into power, they have to mimic the standard template of behavior. Masculine. Where I work, I had a woman boss. I cried once at work due to a panic attack. She got angry with me and told me to "Not show emotions at work!" If you see the irony of that..... she got ANGRY which of course is a perfectly acceptable emotion within a masculine dominated mind set.

A very common interpretation of "feminism" is "allowing" women to take on masculine roles, in other words: all genders having equal rights and opportunities, as long as they are the "acceptable" ones.

To me, this is the start of the issue. The expectation that we are "equal" pushes us to a single template mindset, the masculine type. You want to be equal? Then have "Grit" and determination, "overcome" those obstacles, be aggressive, "crush" that race. Why do women not come out and race? Maybe they don't want to feel like they have to be that way. Maybe the template of warrior doesn't fit.

If I could, I would turn this whole thing around. Why do we not value feminine qualities, regardless of which gender you happen to be? Why not "embrace" the effort, nurture the pain, welcome fatigue? Nope we battle, we fight. We don't cry, we get angry.

I answered your poll. I said No. This is a larger issue that reaches beyond Ultrarunning.

This is the nature of sport, masculine qualities. Is there room for feminine qualities? Absolutely. Instead of talking about gender, why are we not talking about gender qualities, regardless of which gender you identity with?

Male. Female. (gender)

Man. Woman. (Sex)

Masculine. Feminine. (qualities).

Until everyone understands, and values, ALL of these, and understands they can cross over, and even BLEND on a continuum, and depending on the situation, we are stuck with a mostly Male/Masculine world.

Lastly. The US recently had an opportunity to push change at the highest level. Why, in November, did so many women and people of every color vote against their own best interests? That was rhetorical. I wish I knew the answer to that one.

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Jason Bahamundi's avatar

Recognizing privilege hit home for me.

I present as a white male but I am Puerto Rican. For years, I 'hid' that because of the conversations that were being had around me.

Today, I am taking my opportunity to move forward and bring people along because of how I look.

This also means that I recognize my privilege more today than I ever have and do not take it for granted because I know others are not given the same opportunities that I am.....based simply on how I look.

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